Letting go.
Saturday, 13 July 2013 // 17:36
Sometimes, you tend to choose who to keep in your life, who you hold really close to yourself. At times like this, even when they did something you really hate and unreasonable, you will still use your best will to forgive them, trying your best to forget at the same time. Hoping you can really get over what they have done to you. However, things don't always go the way we want. It might be harder than you think for you to do so. Getting over is not always easy most of the time. What's worst off? The other party may not see you as what you see them as, thus not doing the same for you. "One way" or even "Ignorance" is really something sucky at all point of life. Everyone just want to be cared for, to feel special and to be treated the way they know they should be treated. Nobody likes to face rejection or be ignored for any reasons.
In life, there are things you got to learn from the various people you met. Everyone is unique thus everyone has something for you to learn. When things starts to turn ugly and the person is really turning your life upside down, it really means that it is time to let go, no matter how important they are in your life. It might sound a little self-centred, but always live your own life and not for others. Start loving yourself more and not over-thinking. Nevertheless, think for yourself more and live a life where you can enjoy the love from people who really cared and make an effort to stay.
Letting go might not be the best idea sometimes, but it's definitely something which might make your life better. Keep it as an option always.
Coming from someone who has been there, done that, and feeling so much better after putting all the shit to an end.
Till then.
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Letting go.
Saturday, 13 July 2013 // 17:36
Sometimes, you tend to choose who to keep in your life, who you hold really close to yourself. At times like this, even when they did something you really hate and unreasonable, you will still use your best will to forgive them, trying your best to forget at the same time. Hoping you can really get over what they have done to you. However, things don't always go the way we want. It might be harder than you think for you to do so. Getting over is not always easy most of the time. What's worst off? The other party may not see you as what you see them as, thus not doing the same for you. "One way" or even "Ignorance" is really something sucky at all point of life. Everyone just want to be cared for, to feel special and to be treated the way they know they should be treated. Nobody likes to face rejection or be ignored for any reasons.
In life, there are things you got to learn from the various people you met. Everyone is unique thus everyone has something for you to learn. When things starts to turn ugly and the person is really turning your life upside down, it really means that it is time to let go, no matter how important they are in your life. It might sound a little self-centred, but always live your own life and not for others. Start loving yourself more and not over-thinking. Nevertheless, think for yourself more and live a life where you can enjoy the love from people who really cared and make an effort to stay.
Letting go might not be the best idea sometimes, but it's definitely something which might make your life better. Keep it as an option always.
Coming from someone who has been there, done that, and feeling so much better after putting all the shit to an end.
Till then.
Labels: Thoughts
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